Adaptability Is the Only Skill That Matters


In Episode 281, Kelly Kennedy delivers a powerful reminder that in a world moving faster than ever, adaptability isn’t optional—it’s the skill that defines whether we thrive or fade. He shares how resisting change once held him back, from pushing against early CRM systems to realizing that fear of new ideas only slows progress for everyone involved. Using Apple as a case study in self-disruption, Kelly shows how the most successful leaders and companies evolve intentionally—choosing to innovate before they’re forced to.
Kelly challenges listeners to stop fearing change and start seeking it, revealing how the information age has given way to the intelligence age powered by AI. He outlines clear, practical steps to embrace adaptability, face fear, and lead with purpose in times of rapid transformation. The message is clear: adaptability isn’t about reacting to change—it’s about causing it, while it’s still your choice to do so.
Key Takeaways:
1. Adaptability isn’t reacting to change, it’s causing it before you’re forced to.
2. The information age is over — those who cling to old rules will get left behind.
3. Fear of change is natural, but it’s usually just the fear of what we can’t yet see.
4. The other side of change is always better, even if it’s invisible from where you stand.
5. Resisting progress doesn’t protect us — it holds everyone back.
6. Apple’s success came from self-disruption; they chose to evolve while it was still their choice.
7. In the AI era, adaptability isn’t optional — it’s the new literacy.
8. Systems and processes still matter, but only if they evolve with you.
9. Growth begins when you stop defending comfort and start seeking change.
10. The people who win the future will be the ones who adapt faster than fear can stop them.
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Welcome to episode 281 of the Business Development Podcast.
Speaker AWe're living in a time where the world is changing faster than ever before.
Speaker ATechnology that once took decades now evolves in months.
Speaker AArtificial intelligence isn't on the horizon.
Speaker AIt's here, rewriting how we work, create and connect.
Speaker AThe information age is over.
Speaker AWe've entered the intelligence age.
Speaker AAnd.
Speaker AAnd the only skill that truly matters now is adaptability.
Speaker AThis era doesn't belong to the smartest or the most experienced.
Speaker AIt belongs to the ones willing to evolve, the ones that cause change, not react to it.
Speaker ABecause adaptability isn't about survival anymore.
Speaker AIt's about taking control of what comes next.
Speaker AStick with us, you're not gonna wanna miss this episode.
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Speaker AHello.
Speaker AWelcome to episode 281 of the Business Development Podcast.
Speaker AMy gosh, guys, 281 episodes closing in on 300 soon.
Speaker ACannot believe we've been at it this long some days, but it is an honor and a privilege to be here with you, to be able to do this for you guys week over week, month over month, and soon, year over year.
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Speaker AOkay, today I wanted to talk all about the one skill that truly matters in this brave new world, and that is the power of adaptability.
Speaker AThe only thing constant in business and life is change.
Speaker AI think that many of us, me included, have worked to keep things the same in one way or another at least once or twice.
Speaker AWe think we are doing the right thing, maybe even protecting a way of life that we value greatly at the time.
Speaker AAfter all, change can feel hard, even if in practice it's usually easier than we thought it would be.
Speaker AIf I look back to my business development career, I resisted nearly every new way of doing things, especially when I was first introduced to things like CRM Systems back in 2013.
Speaker AIt was feeling a bit draconian.
Speaker ANot necessarily a better way of doing things, but simply a way to get more out of us.
Speaker AThat's how it felt in the moment.
Speaker ABut guys, I was seeing it all wrong.
Speaker AWe had used Excel spreadsheets for years and I pushed back every chance I got.
Speaker AIt took many, many, many more years for me to change my view and become the obviously clear CRM advocate that I am today.
Speaker AGuys, I pushed back every chance I got when my company implemented CRM systems way back in the day because we'd been doing it a certain way for a while and I didn't want to do it a different way.
Speaker AI didn't have to learn something new.
Speaker ALittle did I know that in time, I would be one of the biggest advocates for CRMs.
Speaker ABut once upon a time, guys, I fought it tooth and nail.
Speaker AThe change was scary.
Speaker AI could not see the value and at that point in my career too, I was trying to protect myself, not necessarily improve the business.
Speaker AAnd what I didn't realize was I would have been improving myself as well.
Speaker AThe truth is, I should have embraced that technology as the helpful tool it was right then.
Speaker ABut instead.
Speaker AInstead I was afraid.
Speaker AThat fear not only hurt me, but the company I worked for as well.
Speaker ABecause we were not able to implement an effective process that would have helped everybody involved.
Speaker AAnd that is the harsh truth of resisting change.
Speaker AResisting change tends to hurt nearly everyone and everything involved.
Speaker AI used to believe that new systems like CRMs were just the corporate ways to monitor and control people.
Speaker AI fought it.
Speaker AI resisted it.
Speaker AI told myself that I was protecting my freedom, when really I was just protecting my fear.
Speaker AHere's the truth.
Speaker AWhen we resist change, we don't just slow down progress.
Speaker AWe actively damage the very growth we claim to want.
Speaker AWe hurt our teams.
Speaker AWe hurt our companies and our future selves.
Speaker AWhat we see as control is often just clarity.
Speaker AWhat we fear is surveillance is often just support.
Speaker ASee, I learned the hard way that resisting change doesn't protect progress, it prevents it.
Speaker AAnd if you want proof, just look at a company you already know.
Speaker AApple.
Speaker AApple is the biggest disruptor of their own products.
Speaker AThey don't just adapt to change, they create it.
Speaker AEven when it means destroying their own prior successes.
Speaker AApple understood that their greatest competitor wasn't Samsung, Nokia or Microsoft.
Speaker AIt was their own success.
Speaker AThe moment that they stopped innovating, somebody else would.
Speaker ASo instead of defending their old products, instead they made them obsolete.
Speaker AThey could have tried to protect the ipod forever.
Speaker AAfter all, it was a multibillion dollar product line that changed the music industry forever.
Speaker ABut they didn't.
Speaker AThey killed it with the iPhone.
Speaker ABecause Apple understood that evolution requires sacrifice.
Speaker AIf they didn't do it, somebody else would.
Speaker ASee, adaptability is not about reacting to change.
Speaker AIt's causing it intentionally.
Speaker AWhile it's still your choice to do so.
Speaker AWe talk about adaptability like it's something that happens to us, as if change shows up at our door and forces us to deal with it.
Speaker ABut at that point, it's no longer about adaptability, is it?
Speaker ANow it's about survival.
Speaker ATrue adaptability is powerful because it's chosen.
Speaker AIt's not about waiting to be forced into change.
Speaker AIt's about choosing to evolve while it's still your choice.
Speaker AIt's looking at what's working today and saying, how long until this holds me back?
Speaker AIt's deciding to move before comfort turns into confinement.
Speaker ASee, Apple did something pretty revolutionary when they released the iPhone in 2007.
Speaker AThey single handedly killed their most valuable product line, the ipod.
Speaker AIf that gamble would have failed, it would have been a significant financial setback for Apple and likely would have changed the company forever.
Speaker ASo why did they do it?
Speaker AApple understood something most people and companies never do.
Speaker AProtecting what's working today is the fastest way to lose tomorrow.
Speaker AThey chose to evolve while it was still their decision to make.
Speaker AThey chose to evolve while they were still at the top.
Speaker AAdaptability isn't about being forced to move.
Speaker AIt's about refusing to stand still.
Speaker AIt's about taking back your agency in a world that's changing faster than ever.
Speaker AFor years, adaptability has been about keeping up, staying relevant in the information age, learning new systems and keeping pace in evolving industries.
Speaker ABut we need to wake up and realize something uncomfortable.
Speaker AThe world of the information age is dead.
Speaker AIt served its time, but now it's over.
Speaker AFor decades, the winners were the ones who could gather data, store knowledge and access information faster than everyone else.
Speaker AThat was the game.
Speaker ABut that game is gone.
Speaker AAI is tearing up the game board, destroying the old rules, and is generating a brand new game right in front of our eyes.
Speaker AWe have entered the intelligence age.
Speaker AA world where machines don't just collect information, they can interpret it, predict it, and act on it faster than any human ever could.
Speaker AI'm not saying throw away your systems and structure.
Speaker AFar from it.
Speaker AProcess is what gives us consistency, clarity and accountability.
Speaker AIt's what keeps businesses moving forward even when the world is feeling chaotic.
Speaker ABut here's the thing.
Speaker AEven the best systems cannot survive without evolution.
Speaker AProcesses are not meant to be cages.
Speaker AThey are meant to be frameworks we can grow through.
Speaker AThe danger isn't having a process, product or service that we love or depend on.
Speaker AWe all have great processes.
Speaker AWe all love our products and services.
Speaker AThat's not it.
Speaker AThe danger is falling in love with them so much that we stop questioning what comes next.
Speaker AWe stop trying to innovate, we stop trying to improve.
Speaker AAdaptability doesn't replace process, it fuels it.
Speaker AIt's what turns a static system into a living one.
Speaker AIt's what keeps great businesses relevant, creative and moving forward, while the others get stuck defending how it's always been done.
Speaker AI don't want you to fear change.
Speaker AI want you to start looking for it.
Speaker AAsk yourself, where am I comfortable right now?
Speaker AWhere have I stopped challenging the process?
Speaker ABecause growth does not come from waiting for disruption.
Speaker AIt comes from choosing to evolve before you have to remember change feels hard because you cannot yet see the Other side.
Speaker AWe've all been there, guys.
Speaker AIt's fear.
Speaker AIt's fear that keeps us from moving forward.
Speaker AIt's fear of what comes next.
Speaker AWhen you're in the middle of change, it all feels uncertain.
Speaker AWe've all been there.
Speaker AIt can feel uncertain, uncomfortable, and even threatening.
Speaker ABecause you're standing in the fog, you cannot yet see what is waiting for you on the other side.
Speaker AAnd guys, 99.999% of the time, the other side of change is better than where you are today.
Speaker AHere's what I've learned, guys, through the business development podcast.
Speaker AThrough capital business development and nearly 20 years of sales and business development, the other side is nearly always better.
Speaker AThe other side of change is nearly always better.
Speaker AEvery single time I face change, whether it was technology, business, podcasting, or personal growth, what came next was always stronger, smarter and more aligned than what came before.
Speaker AYou just can't see it yet.
Speaker AThat's the problem.
Speaker AWe're terrified of change because we cannot see what's on the other side.
Speaker AWe're terrified to try that new service, try that new product, because who knows?
Speaker AWhat if it doesn't work?
Speaker AWhat if it's not as good as what we had before?
Speaker AIt holds us back.
Speaker AWe refuse to move forward because we're afraid and we just can't see it yet.
Speaker AThat's why so many people stay where they are.
Speaker ANot because it's better, but because it is visible.
Speaker AThey're familiar with it.
Speaker AAnd familiarity feels safe.
Speaker ABut remember, familiarity is not progress.
Speaker AIf instead, you can trust that the other side of change is better than where you are today, even if you can't see it, you can move forward without fear.
Speaker AOnce you understand that what comes next 99% of the time is better than where you are today, you can move forward without fear.
Speaker AAnd that is how we begin to embrace adaptability.
Speaker ANot as something that happens to us, but something we get to choose.
Speaker AWith courage, curiosity, and intention.
Speaker AHow do we prepare for what is coming?
Speaker ANot with panic, but instead with purpose.
Speaker ANumber one, change.
Speaker AThe question that you ask yourself.
Speaker AStop asking, what if this replaces me?
Speaker AAnd start asking, how can this empower me?
Speaker AEvery major shift in history looked like a threat before it became an advantage.
Speaker ACuriosity kills fear.
Speaker AThe moment you start exploring, instead of defending, you regain control.
Speaker ATwo, audit your comfort zones.
Speaker AAdaptability starts with awareness.
Speaker AAsk yourself, where have I stopped growing?
Speaker AWhat systems have I stopped questioning?
Speaker AIn the AI age, danger is not in failure.
Speaker AIt's in familiarity.
Speaker AIdentify one area of your business or workflow that is running on autopilot.
Speaker AAnd experiment with improving or reimagining it.
Speaker A3.
Speaker AExperiment in small, intentional ways.
Speaker AYou don't have to rebuild your company overnight, just start testing.
Speaker ATry using an AI tool to automate a piece of admin work, summarize client notes, or enhance creative output.
Speaker ABuild micro adaptations into your weekly routine, and over time, small experiments can lead to massive leaps.
Speaker ANumber four.
Speaker AKeep your human edge.
Speaker AIn a world of AI and robots, be human.
Speaker AI've been saying it since the beginning of this show, and I still have not changed my mind on that.
Speaker AAI will handle tasks, but empathy, connection, trust and vision are still human superpowers.
Speaker ADouble down on the qualities that make you irreplaceable.
Speaker ALearn to blend technology with emotional intelligence.
Speaker AAI can make you faster, sharper, and better prepared.
Speaker ANumber 5.
Speaker ABuild adaptability into your systems.
Speaker ADon't discard structure, evolve it.
Speaker AMake your processes living systems, review them regularly, integrate new tools and celebrate experimentation in instead of perfection.
Speaker ASystems are not meant to restrict evolution.
Speaker AUse them to sustain it instead.
Speaker ANumber six.
Speaker ASurround yourself with forward thinkers.
Speaker AYou adapt faster when you're not doing it alone.
Speaker AJoin communities, masterminds, or groups where people are experimenting and sharing openly.
Speaker AAdaptability spreads through conversation and collaboration.
Speaker AIt is contagious.
Speaker A7.
Speaker AReframe failure as feedback.
Speaker AAdaptability requires momentum, not perfection.
Speaker AEvery failed experiment is a data point for your next success.
Speaker AIn the AI age, the faster you learn, the more you win.
Speaker ARemember guys, the AI age isn't just coming, it's here.
Speaker AAnd the people who thrive won't be the ones with the most information.
Speaker AIt'll be the ones who adapt the fastest.
Speaker ASo what do we do if we're afraid?
Speaker ABecause, let's be honest, it's okay to be.
Speaker AFear is normal.
Speaker AIt's human change challenges everything familiar.
Speaker AAnd our instinct is to hold on to what we know.
Speaker ABut here's the truth.
Speaker AWe can't cling to what's comfortable and expect to grow.
Speaker AFear isn't a signal to stop.
Speaker AIt's a sign that something important is asking for your attention.
Speaker AIt's the space between you and who you are becoming.
Speaker AAnd that's why, instead of fighting fear, we have to work with it.
Speaker AWe have to recognize it, understand it, and then start carving a new path forward, one step at a time.
Speaker ABecause if fear is the wall, action is the doorway.
Speaker AAnd the moment you start walking through it, you realize it was never as tall as it looked.
Speaker ASo if you're afraid of change, that is completely okay.
Speaker ABut you don't have to stay there.
Speaker AYou just have to start building a new way through It.
Speaker AAnd here's how.
Speaker ANumber one, we have to acknowledge the fear.
Speaker ADon't shame it.
Speaker AFear isn't a weakness, it's protection.
Speaker AYour brain is wired to keep you safe by avoiding uncertainty.
Speaker AInstead of fighting that fear, recognize it.
Speaker AName it.
Speaker AOnce you see it for what it is, a survival response, not a truth, you take back control.
Speaker ANumber two, get curious.
Speaker AInstead of defensive, fear locks you into defense mode.
Speaker AAnd curiosity.
Speaker AIt opens you right back up.
Speaker AAsk yourself, what am I actually afraid of?
Speaker ALosing control, Looking foolish?
Speaker AStarting over.
Speaker AWhen you define the fear, you shrink it.
Speaker AWhen you get curious about what's behind it, you turn anxiety into awareness.
Speaker ANumber three.
Speaker ARemember past transitions that you survived.
Speaker AEvery big change in your life.
Speaker AFelt uncertain at first, and you made it through.
Speaker AGo back and look at the times that you've adapted.
Speaker ABefore, maybe it was a new job, a technology shift, a personal challenge, and remind yourself you've done this before and you're stronger for it.
Speaker AShrink the size of the change.
Speaker ABig change feels scary because it looks overwhelming.
Speaker ABreak it down.
Speaker AYou don't need to transform overnight.
Speaker AYou just need to take one step that moves you forward.
Speaker AMicro adaptations compound one change in how you work.
Speaker AOne new tool, one conversation with someone who's already adapted.
Speaker AThat's momentum.
Speaker ANumber five, Find somebody to walk with you.
Speaker AFear thrives in isolation.
Speaker ATalk it out.
Speaker ASurround yourself with people who are also learning, experimenting and adapting.
Speaker AChange feels smaller when you're part of a community that normalizes growth and then celebrates it.
Speaker ANumber six.
Speaker AReframe the risk.
Speaker AWe tend to fear the risk of changing, but rarely acknowledge the risk of not changing.
Speaker AAsk yourself, what do I lose if I stay the same?
Speaker AThe fear of staying stuck should always outweigh the fear of moving forward.
Speaker ANumber seven.
Speaker AFocus on the reward, not the risk.
Speaker AYou can't see the other side of change yet, but you can imagine the potential.
Speaker AVisualize the gain.
Speaker AMore freedom, more relevance, more creativity, more control.
Speaker AAnd let that vision pull you forward.
Speaker ABecause the other side of change is always better.
Speaker AYou just can't see it yet.
Speaker AUnderstand that fear is natural, but it doesn't have to be final.
Speaker AThe moment you move with fear instead of away from it, you start to adapt.
Speaker AAnd once you take that first step, you realize the other side wasn't something to fear at all.
Speaker AIt was the next version of you just waiting to emerge.
Speaker AAnd that takes us to the end of today's episode.
Speaker AGuys, I'm not sure what it was.
Speaker AAdaptability this week just felt like the conversation that we needed to have.
Speaker AThe world is changing around us so quickly.
Speaker ABut we shouldn't fear it.
Speaker AWe shouldn't fear it.
Speaker AWe just have to learn how to play with it.
Speaker AAnd I'm confident that each and every one of you are going to come out the other side stronger and better for it.
Speaker AShout outs this week Tim Lin, Jason Michaud, Jamie Moffat, Adam Kimmel, Colin Harms, Rodney Lover, Vajayan Swaminathan, Gordon Shepherd, Amin Samji, Tony Gray, Gary Noseworthy, Carmen LaBelle, Bradley Perry, Kelsey Watt, Tatsiana, Ed Henriquez, Jason Chakalakal, Chris Friesen, Rudy Zacharias, Mark Weller, Janice Baskin and Susan Pas Seka.
Speaker AUntil next time, You've been listening to the Business Development Podcast and we'll catch you on the flip side.
Speaker BThis has been the Business Development Podcast with Kelly Kennedy.
Speaker BKelly has 15 years in sales and business development experience within the Alberta oil and gas industry and founded his own business development firm in 2020.
Speaker BHis passion and his specialization is in customer relationship generation and business development.
Speaker BThe show is brought to you by Capital Business Development, your business development specialists.
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